Sunday morning call
Tea with the family ended rather prematurely. She causally mentioned that kids were going up the road for few days. Their dad had spoken to my dad and has moved back in so they have somewhere to stay.. If she had done it with a bit more tact or shown a bit of concern for our health, with all that we have done and have to do, with the house & kids it would of helped.
We got upset.. Spider monkey came in and I said i didn't think we should discuss it at the moment. Mum said we should. I don't think it's appropriate for six year olds to overheard allegations of sexual abuse or them being denied by close family member. 'What about my feelings mum? You heard what we said to social worker' But it's the usual.
Saying that I want to stop them going up there when they love it, saying he is there dad he has rights and that they will stay out of grandad's way when he is pissed. That she offered to meet him with the kids and she offered to go back up to take them home is needed.
'You only say these things when you have dope' type stuff. That's always a first line of defense. We think cannabis has negative effects on her to. Don't think we have told her though, cause who the fuck are we to lecture!? Lost it in the past over that one though 'that's because we are too depressed and terrified to think or feel nevermind speak without it!' While ago now.
We just left. After some pointless bickering. Grabbed the bit I was gonna share as after dinner blim, grabbed our wine & chocolate and left.
Really could of done with the stew, tatties etc what with the peroid, the physical & emotional work, the infected thigh and armpits that are thinking about it but home is close and getable to so we left.
Can't share food, drugs & wine with some who thinks you can share food, drugs & wine with some who tells you your rape claims are false, in front of children. Not when you have an option any way.
Wotsits and chocolate with a micro lasangua for big little man.. And organising our amazon shabby chic wish list..
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